These "12 annoying habits of therapists" would apply just as well to pastors. Sample:
4. Too Much Information: It’s the client’s therapy, not the therapist’s.
Reader Lynn commented: I briefly saw a psychiatrist who told me her whole life story – repeatedly. Every comment I made triggered a long story about her life. I stopped going to therapy because it seemed like such a waste of time to spend most of the session listening to her talk about her own experiences.